Girl Psychology

Its a topic I have been dying to write for a long long time. Now people might wonder and ask Bidesh you haven't been in a relationship in your whole life till date, what the hell you know?

Humm..answering to that I just know. You don't have to be a genius. I have not been lucky being with a girl.. but 26 yrs of experience is quite long to just get your perceptions out. Not that I have not liked anyone. I have my share of long list of crushes. Leaving that aside lets move on to the topic.

Psychology is a Greek originated word and basically means studying of mind. (in a nutshell.. courtesy ..Wikipedia).. pretty simple isn't it... but the Prefix Girl to it.. makes it all the way complex..

You will never ever get to know what a girl wants from you. We men are brought to this world to be as confused as when we were born..laying naked ..wondering where the hell am I and why are people looking at me like that...

Few of the common wanting from girls are.. smart, tall, handsome... but girls.. its not just about u all... if you think you are born intelligent...so are we.. we desire beautiful charming girls... so lets please compromise.. you know it and we know it.. not all guys are to your wanting.. and neither is ours...

Next thing comes to my mind is.. Strength, Body, Piercing.. etc etc.. hello are you OK?? We people can work out and try to build up... but what happens to you girls.. once you get your someone... u tend to get overweight... you expect something.. so you should promise to be that something....

One thing which is common to both.. is Love.. both the parties need it to the fullest... if the Venus is dieing for pampering.. Mars is looking for that loving SMS in the morning...

Conclusion: Love can be the only way we men will be able to study and understand her mind..As long as this magic exists between the 2, other things doesn't matter much.. after all.. world is made on compromises... so sab chalta hai...

STAY HUNGRY STAY FOOLISH

Its Thrusday afternoon 12:15 PM in UK. I am sitting on my chair staring what to do next. I have already finished my work for the week yesterday evening itself. Guess, I have turned into a workaholic and am slowing turning myself to a ROBOT after coming down to UK (so called Onsite).

I used to love my idle time down in India doing nothing. But things have changed. Now, I can't sit idle in office. I need something to stare @ my monitor. Be it work or Internet sites. Anyways, leaving that aside, while going thru my friend list in gtalk, a friend of mine, Shashank Sahay, had this caption "STAY HUNGRY STAY FOOLISH". I asked him about what does that mean and its whereabouts which leaded me to Google Devta and to the results.

Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, while addressing to a batch of newly passouts from Stanford University told 3 stories from his life which got me amazed.

1. Connecting the Dots
2. Love and Loss
3. Death

These 3 stories clearly depicts that we are born for a reason. We just need time and patience to get to our answers for existence. Most of us are unaware of what we want from life, atleast I am.
We are living our monotonous life day in day out. But I wonder, there is some conscience inside which tells me everyday, I need something different. What? I don't know. But this is definitely not what I want.

I just have to be patient, look for for the What. And once I got to know, I just have to follow it whatever be the circumstances.

God has given this ultimate life and wisdom to make decissions to make a better today and not better tomorrow. I just have to forget about planning for tomorrow and screwing up my today.

I want to start living with the moment.

Negative, Positive and Hope

Today, I came up with a line I told to my Manager. I said to him "It's good to be Negative rather than being Positive and giving false Hope". This line just came out instantly out of no where from inside when we were chit chatting on the project deadline.

What wonders me still is how effective this line is in our lives. People always talks of having positive attitude towards life. But, what I think is a bit of Negativity will do no harm. It will always give you a reality check and will keep you in a frame to achieve the nearest and best possible goal.

Sometimes, we tend to pressurize ourselves with unrealistic achievements. This tends to stress,pressure and even mental instability. So, rather than trying to reach a blurred target with your positivity and false hope just have an X% negative thinking.